Finding happiness, Progress and Weight gain journey.

Thinking back to 2014, memories of living free and being completely happy come back to mind. It was a year of many open doors and opportunities. Four years later I could barely enjoy doing anything as school had managed to take the life out of me. Nevertheless, being home has allowed me time to reflect and honestly find happiness within. Part of this journey meant that I had to start putting effort and more time into the things I loved. I.e writing.

Many a times we forget how blessed we are. If you and I have a talent why not use it for the greater good and share it with others? It could have a positive impact on them. I found the will to motivate myself to start writing again. Writing because I enjoy it and I thought my thoughts were worthy to be read by another. So week after week, I put in progress. Not only in writing but also coming up with new ideas of how I can reach a bigger audience. And hoping that my will to write never dies.

Progress may be slow but good things take time. Amidst the chaos of writing and creating content for my other platforms, I thought one more challenge would not be a bad idea. Gaining weight. My love my body do not get it twisted but I thought a couple few pounds would not be bad. Wanted to look like someone who has completed school, lol. Whoever that looks. You get the point. And I have been at it for a couple of few months and I am loving the results. This is one thing I thought I would not achieve at it. I thought I was pushing it. There’s more in the works and I will definitely share with you guys as we grow.

In short, finding happiness for me as been to re center my focus on myself by putting in effort into my work and challenging myself to achieve that which I honestly think I cannot achieve. It about believing that I, alone is enough to make I and what I think work out. And celebrating the littlest of my achievements. You too, can do it.

HERE IS TO MORE COFFEE TALKS.

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